Functioning Dysfunctionally

If you're already perplexed....Join millions of others...including me!

This is the New normal for so many people today. 

Approach with extreme caution! 

Growing up this person was surrounded by chaotic situations, many of which molded them into who they are today. Sad, and unfortunate, however....NOT YOUR PROBLEM!

Guy meets girl and soon realizing they were raised in different family life settings. What was perceived as taboo to one was the norm for the other. Mostly women, are accustomed to fix shit...STOP that! Most often women want to help him, fix him, love him, show him....While most men, walk away. Each time a women stops to fix a "broken man" she cuts herself in the process. Then...he gets fixed and views her as no longer the whole women he needed in the beginning...she is broken, and bruised and he has no interest in fixing her....so he leaves...

Believe me it happens in the reverse as well, but not nearly as often. Men just don't possess the same inert quality or patience to deal with it like women do. It's just the way it is. 

Women...have to learn to walk away from situations that don't feel right from the beginning. Trust me it is much easier to walk away from a guy you've known for 2 weeks than it is to walk away from a guy you're living with 2 years later. Save yourself the headache and aggravation.