Negative Nancy's

No matter how positive and upbeat you try to be there is always a negative Nancy lurking on the sideline. It's even worse when it's someone that would be your cheerleader or someone who should be happy for you. People always want to throw their two cents in. Nobody asked you for any advice but thanks anyway!! You have to take it with a grain of salt and move on. You should not allow people the freedom to continuously piss on your parade. And after you have let them know and they continue to do so you have to make the necessary changes  even if it means putting some distance. You are responsible for your own self. You can't control what other people do or say...only how you react. Always be true to self!