Assumptions

People assume that you like being in an abusive situation because you stayed. That's not necessarily the case. The first part is recognizing that you are being abused. Not all abuse is direct. Sometimes it is very subtle. Next you've got to have confidence in yourself. Most people won't leave the situation if they don't feel like they can make it on their own, or will be strong enough. Last and most important us the perception of support from friends and family. No one wants to be the butt of the joke or made to feel bad after they leave a bad situation.